As I get older it keeps getting easier for me with girls of all ages, especially young girls. Only a minority of young girls will give you a problem about your older age. It’s best to beat them to the punch and give them crap about their age first. That keeps the frame on your side. If you act bothered, you hand them the advantage for no reason. Younger girls often test the waters, but most of the time they are just waiting to see how you handle it.

Several years ago, my 24-year-old friend took out an 18-year-old on a first date. The whole date he was ragging on her for being so young and inexperienced, that he just isn’t sure about her. Her instinct was to prove him wrong with a blow job on the car ride home. He banged her once the ride ended. The point is simple: don’t let a younger girl qualify you. Make her feel the pressure instead. That kind of teasing can turn doubt into attraction fast.

If I’m much older than her, I’m concerned that she may not have enough experience to please me sexually and mentally. Her lack of experience is obvious when I talk about mine and she has nothing to respond with except her latest mall adventure. Your attitude will indirectly ask her, “What do you have to offer an older, mature man such as myself?” That question should stay in the air from the start. You want her to feel like she has to rise to the occasion.

There is no reason you should let a younger girl qualify you because of your age. It is her youth that is a negative, and you must make it clear from the beginning when you respond with a semi-disappointed “Oh, really” when she tells you her age. That small reaction changes the whole interaction. It tells her she is the one who needs to stand out. If she wants to keep your attention, she should be ready to prove she belongs there.